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I write this from a place of exhaustion, gratitude, sadness, confusion, hopefulness, and rawness. 2025 was extremely formative. It's conflicting being a writer- on one hand, I want to be as vulnerable and open as I can. This is my outlet, and I will never shy away from expressing my feelings. On the other hand, I have learned to keep certain aspects of my life private and wish to maintain a level of sacredness regarding my personal life. That being said, I'm going to be trans

I was trying to get out of hosting Music Bingo tonight. My stomach was hurting, I'm depressed as hell, I'm exhausted, and I wanted a night off. No luck, so I took a cat nap. To no surprise, I woke up feeling worse. I fixed myself some dinner, took a quick shower and headed to my gig. I'm no stranger to "performing" or being "on" when I would rather be doing anything else, so I did my usual trick- deep breath, slap on a smile, practice my emoting voice, and game on. Busy crowd

After the longest and most extravagant birthday celebration ever, I’m sitting down to reflect. I’m 30!!!!!!! I soaked up all the love at...

I’ve said before that you can choose to change at any given moment, and you can even shift into different versions of yourself as you...

I’ll be honest, I haven’t had much inspiration for creative projects lately. I’ve never written JUST to write- I like to think of it as...

Well it’s been a busy, emotional, fun week. I’ve cried so much (good and bad). In my quiet moments, I’m itching to message you… test the...

My ghost tugs the string that binds me to you Did you feel that? Now I’m wearing a necklace, a charmed little noose I struggled a bit...

Written by Bobby Gelter You should be ashamed of yourself. The behavior you've shown is unacceptable, inappropriate, volatile and...

June is Pride Month, which is both thrilling and stressful! Being a DJ, working in radio, and being gay, June is full of events. I...

This is very new / recent for me, but I’ve been trying to wake up early and go to the gym before work. Generally I’m an evening exerciser...

Summer is upon us (despite this gnarly Cincinnati gloominess/rain)! I like to have a "vibe" each Summer and I've decided on mine for this...

I'm very spiritual these days- I admit, I really leaned into it in a moment of necessity, and I'm since learning to hold it with me no...

Jason McCullough, the main character in the 1969 Western "Support Your Local Sheriff," is on his way to Australia when he witnesses a...

We all know that nature can be extremely healing. And if you’re reading this from where I live, it’s full-on Springtime! Flowers are...

Hi friends! After some delay, I am dedicated to consistently posting on here. I've been on a "self-love" "self-improvement" journey...

As one often does, I’ve found myself at a fork in the road. It seems that it’s time to really nail down the age-old question: What do I...